Kelly and I — LiYana Silver, host of Waking Up in Heartbreak — talk about heartbreak, shame, and power: an exploration of what happens when a woman stops conforming to the script she was given and begins rebuilding from what is actually true.
In this episode, look and listen for:
- Why heartbreak often precedes our most meaningful transformations.
- How to stop asking “What’s wrong with me?” and start seeing the bigger forces shaping our lives.
- The hidden relationship between your shame, your power, and women’s conditioning.
I love this hair-raising, heart-melting conversation about the power we can only retrieve from right smack in our crying-on-the-bathroom-floor moments.I know you will too.
About Kelly Diels
Kelly Diels is a teacher of marketing, messaging, and business-building with a feminist lens.
For fifteen years, Kelly has been the strategist behind New York Times bestselling authors and the brands, books, and women you already follow. She is also Culture-Maker. Political theorist. Chief Marketing Officer.
Kelly doesn’t just theorise about winning the game when the game’s rigged — she did it broke, with two toddlers and no job. And she’s forensically devoted to building a better f-ing way: for you, me, and for all of us.
I have been Kelly’s client. And years later, Kelly has been my client.
To connect with Kelly: kellydiels.com
Book a Breakthrough Session with LiYana:
Kelly refers to doing transformational coaching with LiYana in this podcast episode, as instrumental in ‘unleashing’ her and the next phase of her work in the world. This is that work.
Learn more: liyanasilver.com/breakthrough
Pre-order Waking Up in the Dark Night of Divorce by LiYana Silver
And receive two beautiful book bonuses:
- The Waking Up Workbook to accompany the book, with all the practices from the book plus space for you to write and draw; and
- Book Club with LiYana: 3 weekly meetings in which I’ll read from the book, we’ll practice together, discuss, and have Q+A.
Order Waking Up in the Dark Night of Divorce+ book bonuses: liyanasilver.com/wakingup
About LiYana Silver
Relationship coach and author of Waking Up in The Dark Night of Divorce and Feminine Genius, LiYana works with women at the knife’s edge of heartbreak — reckoning with divorce, breakup, and heartbreak so complex it feels like a dark night of the soul.
LiYana guides women (and their partners) through (not around) the darkest passages of their lives. Through her transformational methodology, LiYana helps individuals, couples, and groups reclaim what they lost in the relationship, break repeating patterns, and emerge awake, aligned, and lit-up.
A former professional dancer and lover of painting with oils, LiYana lives in Asheville, NC with her son, their two cats, and a frankly impressive number of houseplants.
Connect with LiYana
Website: liyanasilver.com
Waking Up in The Dark Night of Divorce book: liyanasilver.com/wakingup
Feminine Genius book: liyanasilver.com/femininegenius
The Heartbreak Transformation Map: liyanasilver.com/map
Fresh From The Fire newsletter: liyanasilver.com/newsletter
Waking Up in The Dark Night of Divorce substack: liyanasilver.substack.com/




